At Jessie May, we’re committed to supporting every member of a family, not just the child with a life-limiting condition. That’s where Molly comes in. Her role is unique, evolving, and incredibly important – she’s here to make sure siblings are seen, heard, and supported.
Molly’s journey to Jessie May is as diverse as her role. With a background in drama therapy, working one-to-one with children in schools, she combines creativity with care. She brings a wealth of experience in understanding and connecting with young people.
This role is a new one, particularly created to ensure siblings aren’t overlooked. “Siblings can often be overlooked, especially during times of trauma,” Molly explains. “Even when a child with a life-limiting condition is still alive, siblings can feel invisible. Their needs are important too.”
Molly’s work is guided by three main pillars: supporting bereaved siblings, supporting siblings while their brother or sister is living with a condition, and helping families navigate these experiences. She provides child-led, one-to-one sessions in the home, allowing siblings to express themselves in a familiar environment. These sessions are tailored to the individual child, focusing on their interests, routines, and needs.
“What’s lovely,” Molly shares, “is seeing siblings have time and attention just for them. Someone coming in that’s interested in them can be really reassuring and validating for them. Even if they’re non-verbal, it’s about observing, engaging, and creating a safe space where they can be themselves.” Sessions might include chatting if they’re able, creative activities, or exploring hobbies – always in a way that suits the child. There’s flexibility for days out or community-based experiences too, depending on what’s helpful for the family.
Molly also collaborates with the Jessie May team to ensure siblings’ voices are heard. This includes gathering feedback, planning events, and shaping the support she offers. For context, it’s not long-term therapy; it’s practical, meaningful support that helps siblings navigate their feelings and experiences in any way that makes them feel seen and at ease.
“I love that my role is evolving,” Molly says. “It’s about understanding what siblings want, finding out what support looks like for them, and ensuring they know they have a choice. They can self-refer, or nurses can identify if they’d like support.”
Even with just a few sessions so far, the impact is clear. Siblings enjoy the attention, the opportunity to share, and the chance to explore their own interests while being supported in connection with their family. It’s a vital part of the holistic care Jessie May provides – ensuring every member of the family feels valued, understood, and supported.
“There’s so much in that which is really helpful for my role, particularly in showing young people how they can feel involved and invested in this short-term sibling support. For example, at the end of the sessions, we can reflect on the succession of activities and experiences we’ve shared together.”
Molly’s creativity, empathy, and therapeutic experience make her an invaluable part of the Jessie May team. Through her work, siblings are no longer the invisible members of the family – they have someone championing their needs, listening to their experiences, and helping them feel seen.
If you’d like more information or would like to refer, please contact molly.holland@jessiemay.org.uk
